The Kid Has Good Taste

We had an 8 year-old patient in the sleep lab when I got to work today. He finished his overnight study and was in the middle of his day study. The day study (called an MSLT) consists of a series of 5 naps – 1 every 90-120 minutes. Once the nap is over, the patient has to stay awake until the next nap.

Now, for an 8 year-old patient, this can really be difficult. They are basically in their room that whole time. Yes, they will have breakfast and lunch in between a couple naps, but it’s not like they can go outside to play. We encourage parents to bring books, video games, tablets, or things that will keep the patient busy (and awake).

When I got to work, the kid had just finished his next to last nap. He was sitting on the bed watching a tablet or a phone. Through the speaker, I could hear the theme song to one of the great classic TV shows.

Yep. He was watching I Love Lucy! My co-worker said that he had been watching it all day! He was laughing and totally engaged in it. I thought this was fantastic! 

A good show is a good show! I think about all the old shows I watched growing up because my dad introduced me to them. The Honeymooners, F-Troop, Get Smart, The Munsters, Batman, and the Jack Benny Show were all “must see” TV to me as a kid. I loved when I was home sick from school because they always played the Dick Van Dyke Show on the station out of Canada. Some of those shows were 10-20 years old by the time I was watching them – and my exposure to those shows set the bar for anything else I watched very high.

“This kid has great taste in TV shows,” I thought to myself. Kudos to him not getting sucked in to the garbage that most kids are watching today. I couldn’t help but wonder if he also liked old music or old movies. I bet he is a Three Stooges fan! I guess I kind of saw a bit of myself in this kid.

He has no idea, but he sure made me smile today.

A Couple Dad Stories

Weekend in the Dollhouse?

When people ask me if I watch certain shows on television, I have to remind them that I have toddlers at home. The shows I watch are the ones the kids watch: Bluey, Miss Rachel, Work It Out Wombats, Fireman Sam, and my daughter’s favorite, Gabby’s Dollhouse.

On the show, the main character is played by a gal named Laila Lockhart Kraner. She wears some magic ears on her head that allows her to shrink down and interact with the various cats in her dollhouse. 

My wife sent me a thing last week that said that Laila is coming to some furniture store near us. You could sign up to win VIP meet and greets, which I did. I also reserved a spot to go to the event this Sunday. I know there will be games, snacks, face painting and “Gabby” herself. When I told Ella about it, she was SO excited! She keeps asking how many more “sleeps” till we meet her. 

My co-worker asked me tonight if I had plans for the weekend. I wish I could describe the look on his face when I told him I was going to meet Gabby from Gabby’s Dollhouse! LOL! All I know is that I hope my daughter has a great time!

“He is into everything!”

My youngest son, Andrew, is someone that you need to watch every second of the day. He is just so fast. The other day, I was loading the dishwasher. He walked up to me and wanted to help. When I looked at him, I asked him what was in his hair. It looked like maybe he poured water on it. Nope. In the 5 minutes I turned my back, he got into my wife’s shampoo and kept putting it in his hair. He had enough shampoo in his hair to wash his, Ella’s, the dog, and you! 

Tonight, while Sam was loading the dishwasher, he went into the laundry room and opened up the washer. It had completed its cycle and our sheets were waiting in there to be put in the dryer. What did Andrew do? He saw our container of Oxiclean.

He sees us add this to certain loads of laundry BEFORE we wash them. So, he felt that it was totally ok to add some (i.e. A LOT) to the sheets that were in there. Sam had to rewash the sheets and hope that too much Oxiclean was not going to be a problem.

Recently, my father-in-law was over and he needed a saw to cut something. I went and got mine out of the garage. Because it was raining, I set it up on the shelf by the washer and dryer. I figured it would be out of the way and I would put it back when I got a second. Well, guess who found it and tried it on his finger? Yep. Andrew!

But wait! There’s more! 

Sam took the dog outside to go to the bathroom. In the 3-4 minutes that she was outside, Andrew was at it again. When she walked in, she saw him on a kitchen chair pushed up to the counter. On the counter, he had taken the piece that holds a coffee filter out and put a filter in it. He then scooped a tremendous amount of coffee into the filter. He had actually turned the pot on to brew. Thankfully, there was no water in it, so he didn’t brew any. Of course, we will be sweeping up coffee grounds from the counter, the floor, and a few other places for the next week!

(That’s NOT Andrew, but you get the idea!)

Highlight of the Week

Despite the snow we got this week, the temperatures have been on the mild side. It was nice for all of us to get out and walk the neighborhood. We still bundled up as it was breezy, but it was great to get out and show Daisy the neighborhood.


Devastated. Happy. Excited.

I was up late last night. Naturally I watched the NFC Championship game rooting for the Lions. The first half they looked like a Super Bowl team! I’m not sure what happened at half time, but it wasn’t pretty. To be up by 17 points and then lose, well, it hurt.

Almost immediately, social media began to slam them. I was surprised. This team had done things that they haven’t done in decades. One loss and people were done. It’s insane. I wrote on Facebook today:

I am proud to be a Lions Fan. I think it took all of 5 minutes after the game for the fairweather fans to begin their “Same Old Lions” posts. Do me a favor – find another team to get behind. This is by far the most exciting and memorable season I have had the chance to watch. This is NOT the “same old Lions” – far from it.

What a turnaround for this team! They gave us more to celebrate this season than the last 30! I am proud of this team and the names that have become household names over the past few weeks! I am excited for next season!

Everyone jumped on Coach Dan Campbell who went for some big plays on 4th down that didn’t happen. ”He should have ….” Ok, but had Reynolds actually CAUGHT the ball, no one would have been dissing on the coach. We got to where we were because of those big chances! Reynolds missed a couple catches, Gibbs fumbled, Goff missed a few targets. It all added up and San Fran took advantage of it.

Someone wrote that the game was “a reminder that you are exactly where you are meant to be right now. The goal isn’t always to get the trophy, the goal is to be better than you were before. Winning is wonderful, winning against yourself is a blessing.” They went on to say, “I hope you made yourself proud. There is such a deeper meaning to this season than the Super Bowl.” 

THAT is so true. 

What a year! I’ve never been embarrassed to be a Lions fan, and I am so proud of the fantastic season I got to experience.

I truly am excited for next year!

So Many Reasons Why I Love Her

Today is National Spouses Day! I don’t need a “holiday” to celebrate my wife. As a matter of fact, yesterday I brought her flowers because I wanted to. 

I have been blessed to have been married to my wife for almost 6 years. I love her and am still in love with her. As with most relationships, there are always rough spots. It is during those times that is is important to remember why you fell in love with each other at the start. What I have found is that when I begin to list all the reasons I love her, it only reminds me of what she means to me.

I love her eyes. They still sparkle and I love looking into them.

I love her smile and her laughter. They are contagious.

I love that she still makes me laugh, even if it is at my expense.

I love that she is such an amazing mother to Ella and Andrew. Her love for them is constant. I love seeing just how much they love her!

I love that her hands fit perfectly in mine. 

I love that she is “in the know” about everything. She is a walking day planner. She remembers things that I forget! I can always count on her to keep our family on track.

I love that she has always been supportive of me and encouraged me to do things out of my comfort zone.

I love that she has always strived to be her best, whether it be her education, career, or just “mom.”

I love that she will sit and watch football (or things like Columbo or the First 48) with me.

I love that she is not afraid to say what is on her mind.

I love that she shares good books with me.

I love her patience with me and all of the other craziness in our house.

I love her kisses and her hugs. I always feel safe in her arms.

I love that she is the center of our family and keeps us all in balance.

I love those rare occasions when we get a date day/night together.

I love that she doesn’t see just how beautiful she is, even though I am always telling her.

I love her voice. 

I love all the wonderful things we have shared together and look forward to the things we will do together in the future.

I love going on walks in the neighborhood with her.

I love that she has made me a better person.

I love that she believes that sometimes cereal or ice cream are ok for dinner.

I love watching her play with our kids.

I love video chats with her and the kids while I am at work.

I love that I get to be her hero when there is a spider that needs to get squashed.

I love her because she loves God and believes in the power of prayer.

I love her compassion for others.

I love her because she took a very broken guy like me and completes me.

I love that any time there is a decision to be made, we do it together.

I love her because I am still amazed that a woman like her would choose a guy like me. She is so much better than me.

I love her because she is everything to me.

I love her because I could continue to list 100+ more things I love about her!

Happy Spouses Day, Sam! I love you mostly because – You are YOU!

Throwback Thursday Tune

When it was brought to my attention that the “musical” posts here have not been what they used to be, I decided to make it a point to do one today. This one takes us back to 1990. The year before Elton John released his Sleeping With The Past album. The first single was Healing Hands followed by Sacrifice, both of which were top 20 hits.

The third single was one that I remember playing at WMXD in Detroit before it went all urban. The song was a great uptempo song called “Club at the End of the Street.” I have always loved this song as I felt that it had a “60’s” sound/feel to it. After doing a bit of searching, I found out why.

The song, of course , was written by Bernie Taupin and Elton John. According to songfacts.com:

This is a fun song about a fictional hangout where they play the soul music Elton and his writing partner Bernie Taupin have always loved. Elton mentions Otis Redding and Marvin Gaye in the lyrics. Explaining the inspiration in a 1989 interview with Music Connection, Taupin said: “What I would do is I’d take a song like a Drifters song and I’d try to write a Drifters-type lyric. There’s a song on the album called ‘Club At The End Of The Street,’ which is probably the straightest emulation of one of those songs. When you hear it, it has the feel of a song like ‘Under the Boardwalk.’ It’s a real Drifters-style song. So what I would do is I’d make notes for Elton at the bottom of the lyric sheet, like ‘Think Drifters, think this or think that.'”

Elton said that he loved the song. He told Rolling Stone in 2013: “We wanted to write a song like the Drifters would record, one of those Goffin-King, Brill Building songs. It’s the closest we ever got to one.”

The song only charted at #28, but it always makes me want to sing along. The B-Side of the song was Elton’s cover of John Lennon’s Give Peace a Chance. The video is a fun one where you see an animated Elton playing at EJ’s Club and the patrons are dancing away.

Check it out!

Club at the End of the Street

When the shades are drawn
And the light of the moon is banned
And the stars up above
Walk the heavens hand in hand
There’s a shady place
At the end of the working day
Where young lovers go
And this hot little trio plays

That’s where we meet
That’s where we meet
Me and you rendezvous
In the club at the end of the street
Oooh where we meet
Oooh where we meet
Me and you rendezvous
In the club at the end of the street

From the alleyways
Where the catwalks gently sway
You hear the sound of Otis
And the voice of Marvin Gaye
In this smoky room
There’s a jukebox plays all night
And we can dance real close
Beneath the pulse of a neon light

That’s where we meet
That’s where we meet
Me and you rendezvous
In the club at the end of the street
Oooh where we meet
Oooh where we meet
Me and you rendezvous
In the club at the end of the street

There’s a downtown smell of cooking
From the flame on an open grill
There’s a sax and a big bass pumping
Lord have mercy
You can’t sit still
You can’t sit still

That’s where we meet
That’s where we meet
Me and you rendezvous
In the club at the end of the street
Oooh where we meet
Oooh where we meet
Me and you rendezvous
In the club at the end of the street

You can’t sit still
Where we meet
In the club at the end of the street
You can’t sit still
Where we meet
In the club at the end of the street
You can’t sit still
Where we meet
At the club at the end of the street
Where we meet
Where we meet
At the club at the end of the street
You can’t sit still

First Rambling of Year #6

I posted earlier that this blog celebrates it’s 6th year today. Technically, I guess that blog was the first of year #6, however, this is the first blog with more … content.

He’s a comedian

This morning, Andrew was moving all the chairs in the living room around. He kept pushing them away from the wall. So I looked at him and said, “Hey, Two Men and a Truck! What are you doing over there?” He looked at me and then started making the sound of a truck horn beeping! It really cracked me up.

Whoops!Ouch!

Ok, so my slip and fall was not as bad as that guy, but it hurt. Monday, I was getting stuff out to the car and as I was shutting the trunk and turning to go back in the house I lost my footing. I slipped on the ice and came down flat on my back. The wind was knocked out of me, but luckily I didn’t crack my head on the driveway.

I was finally able to get up and get back in the house. I was a bit sore but moving ok until I went to get in the shower. I took my T-shirt off and as I raised my arms there was a breathtaking sharp pain that shot up from my lower back. It had me in tears. I sat on the couch for much longer than I wanted to hoping that the pain would go away. 

When I finally attempted to get up, I was able to but I could still feel that pain. I thought maybe standing in the hot shower would help. It did a bit. I wound up going to work and had the heated seats on all the way. It was similar to a heating pad and helped a lot. It was a very slow go at work, however.

Tuesday when I woke up, I knew I needed to see the doctor. I could hardly walk. The pain was awful. Thanks to some muscle relaxers and a whole lot of ibuprofen, I was able to work today. It still hurts and I am still being very careful.

GM Gets It

The above logo was what General Motors has done in support of the Detroit Lions. I thought this was pretty cool. Then today I saw something even cooler. Now if you are wondering how big the Lions getting this far is – check out this text message that was sent out to folks at the Flint Assembly Plant:

They altered the start time for the shifts on Sunday night!!! That is HUGE!!! 

According to all the stuff I am seeing, the Lions are the underdogs in the upcoming contest against the San Francisco 49ers. I think that just makes us want it more! One of the best things I’ve seen on the internet this week was this photo with our head coach Dan Campbell:

This is the farthest I have ever seen the team go in my lifetime. I would love to see them advance (and win) the Super Bowl. I truly hope that this is their year. It has been a great one to watch. On to San Fran …

Blog Milestone Celebration

It is really amazing to think that I have been faithfully blogging here on WordPress for 6 years. In that time I have shared many memories, thoughts on life in general, major life events, music and entertainment topics, asked questions, introduced guest bloggers, and shared some very personal things. I like to think that there have been more positive and happy stories than “downer” blogs.

Since this blog began I have come to know many of you as friends. I look forward to reading your blogs and gaining insights into your lives, the books you are reading, the music you love, and your life observations. I am truly thankful for you and your interactions with me here. 

I hope that in the year ahead, I can continue to write things that you will find interesting and entertaining. I know some bloggers have dedicated days to post about certain things. I might decide to do something along those lines. I really haven’t decided. What do you think? Anything you’d like to see featured? If you would rather reach out privately – nostalgicitalian@yahoo.com is my email.

Thank you again for reading! Thanks for your friendship and loyalty. Here’s to another year!

Keith

Book Recommendation: The Mystery Guest

Here I am again with a book that has a recurring character in a series. I read Nita Prose’s book The Maid awhile back. It was one of those that kept popping up on my friend’s list of books to read. I picked it up and read it in just a couple days. You can read my initial thoughts here:

I was excited to see that there was a follow up due out and I went to NetGalley where you can sometimes get an advanced copy to read. I was lucky enough to get be able to read it there. Here is the Goodreads synopsis for you:

When an acclaimed author dies at the Regency Grand Hotel, it’s up to a fastidious maid to uncover the truth, no matter how dirty—in a standalone novel featuring Molly Gray, from the #1 New York Times bestselling author of The Maid, a Good Morning America Book Club Pick.

Molly Gray is not like anyone else. With her flair for cleaning and proper etiquette, she has risen through the ranks of the glorious five-star Regency Grand Hotel to become the esteemed Head Maid. But just as her life reaches a pinnacle state of perfection, her world is turned upside down when J.D. Grimthorpe, the world-renowned mystery author, drops dead—very dead—on the hotel’s tea room floor.

When Detective Stark, Molly’s old foe, investigates the author’s unexpected demise, it becomes clear that this death was murder most foul. Suspects abound, and everyone wants to know who killed J.D. Grimthorpe? Was it Lily, the new Maid-in-Training? Or was it Serena, the author’s secretary? Could Mr. Preston, the hotel’s beloved doorman, be hiding something? And is Molly really as innocent as she seems?

As the case threatens the hotel’s pristine reputation, Molly knows she alone holds the key to unlocking the killer’s identity. But that key is buried deep in her past—because long ago, she knew J.D. Grimthorpe. Molly begins to comb her memory for clues, revisiting her childhood and the mysterious Grimthorpe mansion where she and her dearly departed Gran once worked side by side. With the entire hotel under investigation, Molly must solve the mystery post-haste. If there’s one thing Molly knows for sure, it’s that dirty secrets don’t stay buried forever…

Molly reminds me a bit of Monk. She’s an odd bird, but very observant. It was nice to see what she’s been up to since book one. There are plenty of suspects and there were times I found myself going back and forth between who I thought was the killer. 

I felt that this book lacked a little of what the first one did, but it was still a good read. Again, it didn’t take me very long to read it, and I almost felt like this fell into one of those “cozy mysteries” that people talk about. It was an easy read that kept me guessing. 

The ending is left in a way where a third book is entirely possible, with possible big changes for Molly. It is left in a way where I will definitely want to read the next in the series – should there be one.

Thanks to Random House Publishing Group and NetGalley for allowing me the opportunity to read this book and offer thoughts here.

Returning The Favor

If you have been following my blog, you probably know of the many projects that my father-in-law has helped me with. We made a nook together, put new posts and re-decked our side porch, installed more appliances than I can count and SO much more. I was overdue to return the favor.

When we got our new dishwasher, he took our old one planning on installing it in their cabin up north. Recently, their dishwasher at home quit. We had assumed that he just swapped out that one with the one we gave him. However, when my wife was over there recently, she noticed that it had not been put in yet. We thought maybe he needed a hand, so I texted him on Saturday and asked if I could come over Sunday and help him put it in.  

I arrived Sunday afternoon, and we got right to work. We figured that it should be a quick swap. For the most part, it was. We only had to run up to the store one for an adapter for the water line. In a matter of an hour or so, we were finished. 

We both thought that the Lions game was starting later, but my phone told me otherwise. I have it set to give me scores and such. So to my surprise, they were actually just starting the second quarter when we got done. 

My mother-in-law threw a pizza in the over for all of us (and watched the kids while we worked) and dad and I sat and watched the game. It was probably a good thing that I was watching the game at his house. I’m sure our cheering would have woke her up (she had to work that night).

So the Lions were up 23-31 at the 2:00 warning. Tampa Bay has the ball. We’d seen them put together some nice drives that lead to scores. This game is tight. My father-in-law looks at me and says, “You know what we need right now? A pick (an interception).” Two plays later, Tampa Bay throws the ball and it is intercepted by Derrick Barnes of the Lions! It was magical! 

Side note: If you want to hear what EVERY Detroit Lions fan was feeling, check out our radio announcer Dan Miller call the play. This clip is from the Lions’ Instagram, but it also on their Facebook page.

Goosebumps!