Like Father – Like Son

This phrase is so true for me. It is true is a couple ways actually.

You can find many blogs I have written about the similarities between my father and I. He is my biggest influence in music, books, movies, and TV shows. When someone tells me that I am just like my dad, I take that as a compliment.

I remember my dad introducing me to Frank Sinatra and Dean Martin’s music. The Sinatra channel on Sirius XM is my go to music channel. My children were familiar with it because I always had it on in the car.

When my oldest son, Dante’ got his first job, he was working at an Italian restaurant. When I dropped in to see him one night, he pointed out a picture on the wall. I am almost 100% sure it was this one:

He liked talking about Frank. When he started hanging out with this girl he liked, he told me his was singing Sinatra songs to her. I wish I would remember which ones. Anyway, the other night he texted me something and we chatted back and forth. He asked me what I was doing and I told him I was reading a good book….

I just thought he would think it was cool. His response made me smile:

“I have that same book!”

I couldn’t believe it. He’d actually bought it at the store!

“You make me proud, son. I love that you dig Frank,” I told him.

Like father like son!

I told him that he needed to compile his top 10 Frank songs and I would do the same. Then we need to compare our lists! He loved the idea. Hopefully, we’ll go over those lists soon, when our work schedules allow us to get together.

8 thoughts on “Like Father – Like Son

  1. Nice! You can see the family resemblances in the two photos too. I don’t think I looked very much like my Dad, but my stepmom pointed out to me , maybe 15 years ago when I was fully adult, that he and I stand the same way and had very similar mannerisms we didn’t even realize. And while his tastes in many things like books, TV shows (we had some overlap with them now and again) and most music , I think he made a huge impression on the way I live. He set the example in how to do the right thing, basically, and I sometimes find myself calling that up in my mind when I’m a bit exasperated.

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    1. There is a filter on that Snapchat app that makes you look “older.” When I look at myself “older” I look even more like my dad! It’s crazy. Dante’ is my mini-me, even though he is much taller and his beard has a lot less grey in it!

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