Friday Photo Flashback

Happy 71st Birthday tomorrow to the amazing Reba McEntire! You know that spunk that you see during her live shows and on her TV show?  Yeah, that’s how she is in real life. Here is one of my Rena stories:

I had never had the chance to see her live.  It never failed. Every time she came to town for a show, I was DJing a wedding or something.  I finally had the chance to see her when she played a show at DTE (formerly, Pine Knob).  I was lucky enough to go back stage and meet her.

When I walked up to her I told her I had been wanting to meet her for years, and she said (in her wonderful southern accent), “Well, darlin’, here we are and what took you so long?!”  Talk about an amazing person – Reba is that person.  We talked about her music and a mutual friend that we have. Reba was the reason for that mutual friend.

When I was working at the Moose, I received a letter from a mom who said that her daughter was a big Reba fan. Her daughter had spinal bifada and she had bought tickets to Reba’s show at one of the casinos. She was hoping that she could get back stage so her daughter could meet her. I made a few calls to some record folks I knew and explained that I didn’t need tickets to the show, just two backstage passes. They made it happen. Her daughter was very surprised and that moment led to our friendship which continues to this day.

Anyone who has been to a meet and greet knows that they try to get you in and out pretty quick. There are almost always a line of people waiting to get their turn. When it was time to take our picture together, she pulled me real close and said “let’s make this one look REAL good!”.  She hugged me afterward and I was truly in awe of her. She was about as kind and genuine as they come.

If you ever get the chance to see her, do it – she puts on one hell of a show!

Happy Birthday tomorrow, Reba!

Friday Photo Flashback

I suppose I could have skipped the Friday Photo Flashback this week. I posted quite a few photos yesterday for my anniversary after all. However, I did find one photo worth sharing again. It takes us back to St. Patrick’s Day of 2022.

Ella is two here and Andre is about 5 months old. My wife always does such a good job getting them clothes for holidays. I’m not sure if we got pictures of them this year.

Ella had such natural and beautiful curls here. I love her little smile. It’s had to believe that Andrew ever looked like this. I miss those chubby cheeks.

They are growing up way too fast.

Friday Photo Flashback

Oooooh! A new graphic! Pretty cool what AI can do with very little instruction.

Anyway, did you know that today is National Earmuff Day? Honest. Here’s why:

Earmuffs were patented on this day in 1877. In 1873, at age 15, Chester Greenwood devised a solution for cold ears by having his grandmother sew fur onto wire loops. He reportedly came up with the idea while ice skating. He received a patent for his “earmufflers” on March 13, 1877, at age 19.

Greenwood went on to manufacture these protectors for nearly 60 years, with his factory in Farmington, Maine producing them for U.S. soldiers during World War I. Farmington was known as the “Earmuff Capital of the World!” Earmuffs are actually categorized as clothing accessories or(believe it or not) personal protection equipment (P.P.E), specially designed to cup and protect the ears from either cold weather or noise. 

Greenwood received other patents, too. Those included a tea kettle, a variation of the steel-toothed rake, an advertising matchbox, and a machine used to produce wooden spools for wire and thread. He also invented, but did not patent, an umbrella holder for mail carriers.

Celebrate today by wearing your earmuffs (or as Greenwood called them, “Greenwood’s Champion Ear Protectors”).

My flashback photo takes us back only a week or two when my wife snapped this photo of my son in the backseat.

Earmuffs and an X-Box controller (with no X-Box in the car!) – only my kid!

Friday Photo Flashback

This month my wife and I will be celebrating our eighth wedding anniversary. So much has happened over eight years and I wouldn’t change a thing. She continues to be the pillar of our house. She keeps everything in line, including me.

Before our kids came along, we actually had time to go out and have time together. Today’s Friday Photo Flashback is from one of our first dates.

Back in 2017, Sam took me to a place in Lansing called the Claddagh Irish Pub. She raved about the fish and chips there and took me there for my birthday. It was about an hour from our house. She had told me that the inside looked like an Irish castle. When we pulled up, I wasn’t sure what to think. It was in a sort of strip mall.

Sure enough, though, when we walked in, it looked like a castle.

Naturally, I had to try the fish and chips. It was absolutely delicious. When we left I mentioned that we should make sure to visit again soon. We never got around to it. Sadly, in 2020, it closed permanently thanks to Covid.

This picture was a selfie we took that day:

It’s funny to look at that picture now. Sam really hasn’t changed at all. She still is as beautiful as ever. However, a lot of things changed for me. Now I shave my head. I also have a full beard. This was also back before I had to go and get glasses, too. Oh, and I’m probably 40 pounds lighter here.

I remember that date. This was a time were we hadn’t been together that long, but she treated me like I had never been treated before. She actually treated me like I meant something to her. I cannot begin to tell you what a difference she made in my life.

I’m looking forward to celebrating our anniversary with her.

Friday Photo Flashback

This week, my wife and I were going through the many photos that we have of our kids. We have a wall lined with various pictures already, but in the past few months we’ve talked of adding more to another wall.

We just received Ella’s cheerleading photo. The Daddy Daughter Dance photos should be arriving very soon. Both kids will be playing T-ball in the summer. Those photos alone will get us a good start, but my wife said that she wanted to make sure some of the kid’s younger pictures that never made it to the wall get a place there.

As we revisited those early photos, there were a lot of smiles between the two of us. There are plenty of photos to choose from. The biggest challenge in creating the new “Wall of Smiles” is making sure there are (1) an equal number of photos for each kid and (2) and equal number of horizontal and vertical photos.

Rest assured that I will have my tape measure and level out to be sure the photos line up correctly.

During our search through photos, we came across one of our daughter taken for her first birthday. Five years ago this month, we got a look at the future “sassiness” of Ella with this one:

This will forever be one of our favorite photos of her. It is currently a canvas that is hanging up in its own special place in the living room.

Friday Photo Flashback

It’s been a pretty cold and miserable winter here in the mitten. When I went looking for a Flashback photo, I found one that brings back memories of a warm Ohio day.

My folks took us down to King’s Island one summer. If I had to guess I would imagine this was 1975 or 1976. I look about 5 or 6 here.

This is one of those trips that I can only recall bits and pieces of. Most of the memories of the trip come from photos. I do not recall posing for this picture. I don’t really remember anything about it. I cannot remember seeing the flower Fred Flintstone and I’m not sure which parent decided this was a good photo opportunity. I also don’t remember owning a Great Gazoo tank top, but obviously I did.

This is one of the reasons we haven’t taken the kids to somewhere like Disney. We want them to be old enough to remember the trip. They shouldn’t have to look at pictures as their only memory of their time there.

I remember that we rode on a water ride that took us through a tunnel. There were various characters all around as we floated through. I remember there were two skeletons dancing together and thinking it was hilarious. I asked one of my parents to take a picture of it. That photo is lost, along with other photos from that trip, sadly.

That was the one and only time we went to King’s Island. Honestly, I don’t know if it is even still open. If it is, I would imagine the things that were in place 50 years ago are long gone. I even did a Google search to see if I could find a picture of the skeletons, but nothing came up. I wish I could find that picture.

Oh, and another reason I like this picture – I have a lot of hair!

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Tomorrow night, I’m going on a date. I will have a beautiful girl on my arm once more! It is a day that my daughter and I look forward to every year! It is time for the annual Daddy/Daughter Dance. As soon as she heard tickets were on sale, she made sure I knew to get them!

Our first one was in February of 2023. It was close to her birthday, so she always knows when her birthday is near, so is the dance. We have copied our pictures every year.

Here is 2003, 2004, and 2005.

This year, I’m not sure I’ll be able to pick her up! She’s getting so big. I hope that she is never too old to recreate these pictures, especially the kiss on the cheek pose.

I’m looking forward to a fun night!

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Today’s photo was taken during one of my brother’s visits home. I chose it because it is one of my favorite photos of my dad, my brother and me.

It’s hard to believe, but I think this photo is about 20+ years old. I’m guessing it was taken around 2006ish. I remember my brother, his partner and my dad drove up and we met for breakfast or lunch. This was taken in the parking lot of the coney island we went to.

I am sure that my ex wife and my oldest son were there, too. I don’t think my second oldest was born yet. It’s hard to say. I think I’m pretty close to the right year because I am wearing a radio station jacket. I bet this was from my second turn at B95 which would have been around 2006. They fired me after my second son was born in 2007.

Anyway, I truly love this photo of the three of us. We all look so young here. My brother and I still have some hair, and my dad looks great. I wish we could all get together more.

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In 2013, I was in the final semesters of our sleep program. For one of the classes we were given an assignment involving a presentation. We were to pick a partner (or partners) and do a presentation on a sleep disorder. There was a catch however. The presentation could not be something that was a typical dull presentation.

We were encouraged to be as creative as possible in presenting our topic. Our instructor showed us a couple examples from previous classes. One was a simple video that was recorded in the school sleep lab on nightmares. Two students played parents and another played a child with the disorder. We were told of another group who did a “newscast” in front of the class on their topic and a group that presented their topic as a song they wrote and performed.

I had a connection with the production director at the local Fox affiliate and he allowed us to shoot our presentation there. We did ours as the SNL version of Celebrity Jeopardy. Thanks to the use of a green screen, My buddy Matt played Clint Eastwood and Alex Trebek, while I played Elvis and Sean Connery. It truly looked like the real show thanks to props from the TV station.

I say all that to set up today’s photo:

One of the presentations was done as a sort of talk show. One of our classmates was the host who was to interview “Key Thallen” a brilliant play on my on air name (Keith Allen). My friend Jackie portrayed Key. If memory serves me right, she asked if I had any radio station T-shirts she could borrow for their presentation. Not knowing that she was going to go the extra mile, she walked into the room wearing the T-shirt and the “old man” hat I always wore. She topped it off with obnoxiously large eyebrows and goatee that were stuck to her face.

I honestly don’t remember much of their presentation because I was laughing through the entire thing. I have to say, her impression of me was spot on! Finding this photo brought back memories of some really fun days.

Friday Photo Flashback

I stumbled on a picture of my mom yesterday and thought it would make a good flashback picture.

The picture shows my mom holding on to the only cat who ever lived in their house. I remember the cat was named Callie and it never seemed to want to be near anyone but mom.

How mom got dad to agree to get a cat, I will never know. My dad made it quite clear growing up that he disliked cats. Somehow, he welcomed the kitty into the house.

I never knew what it was like to have a cat until I had moved away from home. I don’t remember how I came to get one, but I named him Larry. When I moved back home, my brother took him to Ohio with him.

I can’t tell, but it sure looks like this is our house. It may be the front room. It is hard to tell.

A couple things stand out to me. I do not remember this sweater at all, but I love how mom looks in it. Next, the garland in the background. Mom always had garland on doorways, windows and even on the walls. Garland always makes me think of mom.

I have no idea when this was taken, but it looks like mom is healthy. I’d imagine this was taken before she got cancer.

It’s funny how I was just talking about my mom and then I stumble on this photo. I wish the photo was a bit clearer.