2024 in Review

I spent the better part of New Year’s Day and yesterday thinking about 2024. It always amazes me at just how much stuff you do in a year! Sometimes I wish WordPress had a “memories” feature like Facebook. I’d love to be able to look back on a given day without having to search my entire list of blogs. (Max – Looks like we’re gonna have to work on that index)

The first thing I did was check my stats. I was surprised that last year I wrote 378 blog posts. That’s 104 more than the previous year. I have a theory on the increase. More on that in a minute.

The next stat that I saw was the number of views. In 2023 I had 31,000 views, while in 42,000 views (According to WordPress, that is up about 36%). I am humbled that my content would be something others would find interesting.

The most popular post of 2024 was my post from December of 2018 – My Top 20 Favorite Christmas Characters. It was also my most popular post in 2023. Six years later and it is still going strong!

There were, of course, plenty of highlights from 2024. Briefly, here are some of my favorites:

I participated and submitted a post for all 12 editions of Turntable Talk with Dave from A Sound Day. His monthly music topic is a favorite of many of the contributors and I love being a part of it.

According to Goodreads, I read 60 books last year. Can you believe I had hoped to read 100? It was hard enough to read those 60! All of my reading gave me opportunities to suggest books you might enjoy. It has also connected me with other avid readers. Their posts often lead me to my next book.

In February, I took my daughter and my niece to meet “Gabby” of the show Gabby’s Dollhouse. I still remember how in awe she was sitting next to her.

That same month, she turned 4 and her birthday fell on the date of the Daddy Daughter Dance.

Speaking of her birthday, we visited our favorite photographer quite a few times this year. We got Ella’s 4th birthday pictures, Andrew’s 3rd birthday pictures, Spring photos and our family Christmas photos. Smiles all around!

After an eye exam, we found out Ella needed glasses. She mainly needs them for reading and such.

March started off on a sad note as Sam’s grandma, the kid’s great grandma, passed away at age 94. She was such a wonderful lady and I loved getting the chance to go over for visits.

My blogging kicked up a notch in late April and early May. This is why I think my posts increased so much this year. I decided to bring back a couple features: Tune Tuesday & the Friday Photo Flashback. I had been doing these off and on for a while. On my birthday in May, I debuted a new feature. I thought it would be fun to focus on a different year of my life every week. I called it The Music of My Life and it should wrap up right around my birthday this year. Then, I added a Movie Music Monday feature. It focuses on a movie song every week. It’s a chance to play some rare tunes.

Mother’s Day we celebrated Sam! The kids painted her presents.

We did the Walk for Miracles at the Detroit Zoo. It is a great charity event and we were surrounded by many super heroes!

Ella was excited to start T-Ball this year. She had a great coach and she seemed to have a lot of fun. It’s always crazy to watch the little ones out on the field. Really, all they want to do is hit the ball!

Summer was a blast! Sam made sure of that! This year they had a HUGE home water slide

Summer got even more fun when we spent a weekend at Nana and Pa’s cabin. They LOVED riding on the four wheelers.

For Father’s day, my boys meet me and the kids for a picnic. We had pizza and played at the park. It was so fun to watch the older boys playing with the younger kids.

One of the biggest projects this year was tearing up and reseeding the front lawn. The construction crews really messed up my lawn.

Aunt Margaret called us and invited us to a day at the county fair. It was hot as blazes, but it was such a fun day. There were so many animals, plenty of rides, and the kids had a blast!

When summer came to a close, it was a BIG first. Ella started Preschool. She has excelled there. She LOVES school and I hope that is always the case.

The newest addition to the family was a little kitten named Bitsy. At the time, I was sure it was a mistake to bring in another animal, but she’s grown on me. She loves the kids, too.

Andrew is always on the go. His energy is insane. We had to get him doing something to give him an outlet for that energy. So we signed him up for soccer. Depending on the day, he loves it or hates it. Typical boy! It starts back up again in the spring.

In October, I did an experimental “topic” post. I called the feature Share Your Nostalgia. It was about the one toy that you remembered most from your childhood. Some fellow Turntable Talkers and a few other blogger friends participated. I have one almost ready to go, I may have to push it back to February. That is to be determined.

My son Andrew celebrated birthday number 3 with a poop cake! He had his choice of just about every character you could think of, and he chose the poop emoji! That’s my boy!

One memorable trip was to the pumpkin patch with our friend Miss Christa and her daughters. We spent the day riding rides, eating donuts, and picking our pumpkins. Andrew loved the apple cider slushi!

As Halloween approached , we attended many trunk or treat events. There was one in town, one at Nana’s church, and a few more. There was no shortage of candy!

The day after Thanksgiving, we all went to Wild Lights at the Detroit Zoo. They do such a great job there every year. The kids were in awe of the Christmas lights!

As the year wound down, it stayed busy! Ella had joined dance earlier in the year and her first dance recital was at the beginning of December. It was so emotional for me to watch my precious little girl out there dancing her heart out. She loves dance so much. Aunt Margaret, Nana and Pa, Papa, Miss Christa and mom and dad were there to enjoy the show!

Shortly before Christmas, Ella was scheduled for surgery. She had her adenoids taken out. She was a trooper and pulled through like a champ!

On Christmas Eve, my sons came by and we had a great afternoon. They brought pizza and their younger siblings were SO happy they were there. I love spending time with all four of my kids. Even though the visit was short because Dimitri had to work, it was a wonderful day.

Christmas Eve continued with a visit from Nana and Pa followed by drive through lights down the road from us. Christmas morning was welcomed with Santa gifts, mom and dad gifts and homemade cinnamon rolls. A perfect day to be sure.

One of the biggest surprise of 2024 was a winning Detroit Lions season! And it isn’t over yet! For years, I’ve been a fan and nothing ever came together. This team and these coaches have turned our team into a contender and it is such a tremendous feeling!

I’m sure there was plenty more to rehash, but I will stop there. To quote Sinatra, “It was a very good year!”

As I close, I thank YOU. The fact that you read my blog and comment on them means so much to me. In no particular order (and completely off the top of my head), I want to thank some of the folks who interact almost daily:

Max, Dave, CJ, Beth, Nancy, Colin, Deke, Carla, John, Christian, Britta, Randy, Vic, Sadje, Phil, Keith, Grace, Ruth, Erin, Beth W, Chelia, Melissa, Mary Anne, Mary O, Victoria, Regina, Jill, Stewart, Cindy, Lisa, Jim, Jennie, Paul, Allen, Jeff, Gee, Gary, Matthew, Christopher, Debra, Lesley, Michael, Mike, Kalley, Rebecca …. and anyone who I may have missed. I appreciate all of you in my life.

Happy 2025! I hope it a a blessed one for each of us.

Thanks for reading!

A Look Back at 2023

Perhaps this year I will plan a bit better. I hoped to post this year-end recap on January 1, 2024, but life had other plans. If I made New Year’s Resolutions, planning ahead just might be one of mine. Better late than never …

2023 was a year of ups and downs, but that’s what makes life interesting, right? As I looked back at the year in preparation for this blog, I was surprised at what a decent year it was. I found myself smiling at so many of the memories. I truly believe that there was more good memories than bad last year.

2023 was a year of accomplishments for me:

  • I read more books last year than I have in a very long time. There were so many good ones (many of them I reviewed here)! 
  • I completed a full semester of my Bible classes and am ready to start the 5th semester (of 9). 
  • Then there were the projects my father-in-law and I completed. We turned a closet into a nook, put in an entire new deck on the porch, and built a fence for the puppy. 
  • I also completed a course on Dickens’ A Christmas Carol.
  • I participated in 12 installments of Turntable Talk for Dave Ruch’s A Sound Day site
  • I contributed a few songs to my friend Nancy’s The Rhythm Section site
  • I taught a couple classes on Sleep Medicine at a local college
  • I wrote my 1000th blog

There were a lot of new things in 2023 for me:

  • Sam and I both got new vehicles
  • I got a new schedule at work when I switched to afternoons
  • We got a new driveway and sidewalks because of that construction mess on our street
  • We added to our family with our new puppy, Daisy
  • A new diagnosis of ADHD and long term depression for me. This brings many challenges.

There were so many wonderful times with family and friends:

  • Ella celebrated birthday #3
  • Andrew celebrated birthday #2
  • Dante turned 21
  • Dimitri turned 16 (and I golfed with him for his birthday)
  • I celebrated my birthday with a princess party theme (picked out by Ella) and wore a tiara!
  • Our family enjoyed a nice day at the beach in Caseville
  • We enjoyed a great day on the Halloween Train with Aunt Margaret and Uncle Walt
  • My brother and I got to spend some time together thanks to his visits up to Michigan (He even contributed a nice guest blog)
  • Sam and I enjoyed a night out with a nice dinner and then seeing a Golden Girls play
  • My radio buddy, Cam, who I hadn’t seen in decades, came up and we had a great time reminiscing over coffee
  • My Goddaughter, Marissa, got married
  • The family enjoyed a night at the Detroit Zoo enjoying their Christmas Lights display
  • I had all my kids over on Christmas Eve and it was nice to have them all together. It may sound crazy, but we all sat on the couch and watch the Christmas episode of Shaun the Sheep and laughed like crazy together.
  • I also got to enjoy my first ever Daddy Daughter Dance with Ella.

Andrew certainly kept us busy this year. He’s been through the ringer. This year he’s had an MRI, an EEG, a few Sleep Studies, throat surgery, a swallow study, received a diagnosis of mild cerebral palsy and is now wearing braces on his legs. Between doctor appointments, he’s been doing speech therapy, and physical and occupational therapy. We spent a lot of time in the car this year. Thankfully, we continue to work on things and his prognosis is looking great.

I was finally able to hold the amazing portrait of Ella and Andrew in my hands this year. My friend Belita sent me many photos as the portrait progressed and my excitement built with each one. It is so beautiful. I need to get a frame for it, so I can hang it up on the wall.

As a bonus, the Detroit Lions have given me the best season I have been able to witness in forever!. 

In 2023 I wrote 274 blog posts and this site had almost 31,000 views. As I looked back at the most popular posts, I was surprised to see that there was a new “Most Viewed” blog. The 6th blog I ever wrote for this site somehow always was the most viewed blog every year. It was a blog I wrote with some of Red Buttons’ funniest lines:

That blog came in at the third most viewed this year (Over 700 views). The second most viewed blog was a holiday themed blog about one of my favorite Christmas specials:

The Year Without a Santa Claus blog just beat the Never Got a Dinner blog (750 views) The new champion, and most viewed blog this year was also holiday themed and got an amazing 4841 views!

I have to wonder why it got so many views. I do think it is cool, though. 

As a loyal reader and visitor to this blog, I want you to know how much I appreciate you. Thank you for reading and commenting on my posts. Thank you for making 2023 something to remember.

As we continue in the new year, I pray it is a good one for you and me. That being said, I’m going to do something that I really have never done before on here. 

My faith is something that you are aware of. I am always open to a good conversation about my faith. I make it no secret that I believe the Bible and am a Christian. I understand that you may not be. That is your choice and I am not in the position to judge anyone for what you believe. That being said, I watched a message from a pastor friend that really was powerful. I’m going to post the video here on this blog. Feel free to watch if you wish. If you don’t want to watch it, that’s ok. Consider this the end of this blog post. 

If you do want to watch, let me set it up for you:

In the 1990’s, William Strauss and Neil Howe wrote a book about the historical cycles in America. It was called The Fourth Turning.

It is really a fascinating read! Bryan Ross taught a message about the New Year and if the cycles of history continue to follow the pattern, 2024 could bring some issues. His message was full of information and really helped me to be at peace and ready for what history might cycle back our way.

Keep in mind that the book itself is not a biblical book about prophecy or anything like that. It looks at the cycles of history. Pastor Ross presents this info honestly and then answers the question of how we should prepare for it. 

Thanks for reading.

2021 – What a Year!

At midnight tonight, we’ll start a brand new year – 2022. Some have compared a new year to a book. The book with 365 blank pages – one for each day – and said that the book is ours to write. There is truth to that.

As I looked back over my “book” entitled “2021,” I see that (despite the pandemic and all the crap that came with it) I really did have a good year. Bear with me, he’s the recap:

January

January started with some snow. It actually looks like we should be getting snow again this week. Ella absolutely loved being outside in the snow. It was fun to watch her try to figure out just what all the white stuff was. Today, when she sees it, she get’s excited and yells, “Snow! Snow!”

In mid-January, we scratched our heads and wondered just how Ella was 11 months old! I mean, it seemed like she was just born!

The pressure was on as we closed in on her first birthday. With Covid, we weren’t quite sure if we’d even be able to have a party for her.

February

As we got closer to Ella’s birthday, Sam was just not feeling right. 3 days before Ella’s birthday, we found out that baby #2 was on the way!

This took us both completely by surprise! There was great excitement all over again. The hardest part was keeping it a secret…

Ella’s first birthday was a fun and busy day. We ditched the pink blocks and marked the birthday with a HUGE number “1” balloon. This was followed by a trip to the Sea Life Aquarium, the Build a Bear place, and cake at Nana’s house.

We were glad to be able to get some professional “1st Birthday” pictures, too!

March

In March we got our first look at the baby we now know as Andrew/AJ and announced Ella’s promotion to big sister.

Ella also got her first haircut

March also consisted of many walks around the neighborhood and stops at the park.

April

Big brother, Dante’ turned 19 this month! Before that, Easter fell on my mom’s birthday. We got Ella all dressed up in her Easter dress, stopped at the cemetery to visit grandma on her birthday and then went to Nana’s for an Easter Egg hunt!

Ella is so very blessed to have wonderful people in her life. Aunt Margaret is one of them! (She will kill me for posting this picture, but I just love this!!) She and cousin Marissa came to visit and the highlight was watching them read books together.

We also found out the baby’s gender, but that wouldn’t be revealed until May.

May

Birthday’s have never really bothered me, mostly because I opt for the Jack Benny attitude and say that I am stuck at 39. However, in reality I turned 51. 30 was big. 40 was tough. 50 a bit hard to swallow. Over 50? Well…..I examine my own mortality every day.

The month started warm enough that Ella got to spend lots of time in her sandbox and pool.

We revealed that Ella was having a baby brother and got another look at him on an ultrasound.

Ella and I worked on a special project for Sam for Mother’s Day and we got to visit the Detroit Zoo.

May also brought Ella her first taste of corn on the cob!

June

My second oldest boy celebrated his 14th birthday in June. We got to spend Father’s Day together by visiting Crossroads Village. They had a Classic Car Show there and we walked the village and rode the train. It was such a great day with my kids!

It was SO hot that day!!! By the end of it all, Ella was physically exhausted. June was a hot month and we did get to get out and enjoy walks in the park and a day at the splash pad.

July

By July, Sam was 5 months pregnant and was so sick. The pregnancy was a rough one on her. The heat didn’t help things. Despite that, the middle of summer was packed full of amazing things and our family had loads of fun.

We celebrated America’s Birthday, Ella had her first visit to the public library and bowled for the first time, and we all visited the Saginaw Children’s Zoo.

August

As Summer drew to a close, we continued to squeeze as much into it as we could. I got to spend a perfect day doing a daddy daughter picnic, my name was finally on the board at the Corner Cone for a free ice cream, Ella spent lots of time drawing with crayons, and our stress levels were through the roof as we took Ella in for her ear tube surgery. We also got another peak at AJ and had a visit from my brother.

September

Fall! My favorite season of all. I was glad to be able to get together with Margaret, Walt and my buddy Chris at Margaret’s house. Since she’s already mad at the one picture I posted, I’ll just share the one she told me I could share. Hopefully, that makes things a little better….

We always love going to get pumpkins and decorating the front of the house for fall. Ella seemed to like it, too.

Ella and I also got to take one last trip to the Saginaw Zoo before it closed for the season. It was a great day for us, and Sam actually got to relax a bit.

October

We had been told more than once that there was a possibility that the baby would come before his due date. He held out almost until the date! Just two days before he was born, Ella and I got to go outside and enjoy the fall colors.

On October 11th, AJ entered the world. I watched in awe as my son was born and all the pride of being a daddy again filled my soul. We weren’t sure how Ella would handle it, but she welcomed him with open arms.

They still did not have a photographer at the hospital, so we went to JC Penney to have some newborn pictures taken. AJ looks spiffy in his outfit!

While this wasn’t Ella’s first Halloween, it was the first real Trick or Treating adventure for her. She was happy that big brother was there to walk with her. AJ was obviously way too young to attempt to go out this year.

November

Fall walks are among my favorites. I love looking at the colors. Ella and I took many fall walks and there were many instances where she’d just play in a pile of leaves! AJ kept us all busy and so it was just Ella and I making the trip to Bronner’s to get his ornament for the Christmas tree. We enjoyed a wonderful Thanksgiving at home and got the house ready for Christmas.

December

The final month of the year brought many happy memories. Professional Christmas pictures, my annual reading of Dickens, AJ turned 2 months old, a visit from Papa and Grandma, Christmas Eve with my boys, Holiday lights at Crossroads, our first Christmas as a family of four, and the anticipation of a brand new year.

Blog highlights included my entries to the 2021 Song Draft, salutes to Soupy Sales, my grandpa, and Ernie Harwell, a guest blog from my pal Max, silly blogs about hats and Bernie Sanders’ mittens, fishing memories, my favorite Twilight Zone episodes, and a blog about an amazing cartoon Dog Dad.

There were many sad moments in 2021. I lost classmates and friends to cancer, heart disease, and of course, Covid. If the past two years have taught me anything, it is that life is precious and another day is not promised. You never know when it will be the “last picture,” the “last phone call,” or the “last visit.” It takes me make to that quote that my band director wrote on the grease board my senior year. I have quoted it many times. “Live every day as if it were your last. Someday, you’ll be right.”

Life is too short. Live. Laugh. Love.

As we welcome 2022, I pray that it is a good year for all of us. May we find it full of happiness and good health. May God bless you and yours in the upcoming year.

Get ready. The Book of 2022 awaits. Grab your pen and turn to page (January) 1.